It makes me really uncomfortable and grossed out. After that, every time he has a guy over (not that often, but every once in a while) I just start feeling like shit and wishing that guy would leave, and I can’t stop thinking about what these guys might have done to him even though I don’t want to imagine that.
I thought maybe they just caught me by surprise and that’s why I reacted so strongly, but it turned out it wasn’t a one-time thing. ‘I felt bad for being as disgusted as I was, since there’s NO good reason for me to have a reaction like that. Alex was embarrassed (he didn’t think I’d be back for a while), but I told him it was okay since I was embarrassed too.
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I don’t know how to describe what it was like to see that, except that for a moment I felt so bad I thought I was going to throw up. ‘I don’t know when it started but one time that really sticks out to me is when I came home and saw him and some guy making out on the couch. He’s usually discreet enough about it that I don’t see/hear anything I wouldn’t want to see/hear from anyone else, but for some reason I’ve started feeling weird if I even see him with other guys. At the start I thought I was okay with it, since it’s really not my business who he sleeps with. ‘The problems started because of this: Alex brings guys home sometimes. I’m straight and he knows that, but I don’t feel threatened by him flirting with me and he says most straight guys do. At some point we became friendly enough with each other that we could even joke about it, as in, sometimes he’ll pretend to flirt with me and I’ll pretend to flirt back. ‘”Alex” has been my roommate for one year, and I pretty much knew upfront about him being gay. I had a gay friend in high school and we made it through some tough times together, I never felt weird about him dating a guy. Posting on Reddit, he said: ‘First things first, let me say that I’ve never thought of myself as being discriminatory before. But then when Alex started to bring guys home…he started getting annoyed, resentful, disgusted. When Alex told Mike he was gay, he was absolutely fine with it.
This straight guy, who we’ll call Mike, has been roommates with Alex for a year. We’re pretty sure this story is pretty much better than any romantic comedy, but you be the judge!